“I often find my heart leading me to a bunch of people whenever I need someone to communicate and oh! They are my family.”
Amidst the chaos of our fast-moving lives, we often find ourselves lonely. Many times, we find ourselves in a position where we don’t have anyone to talk to or share our feelings. We realize that we don’t have anyone to share our problems with. It makes us feel depressed and alone. But we often forget that we all have some people, whom we call ‘family’.
Importance of family
Family. How would you define family? The families are people who are ready to be with you through anything and everything. Your family waits for you after a long day at work. So that you come home safe and everyone can eat together. Our family always has your back. Our family is the one thing that keeps us from breaking down. Your family motivates you, encourages you, supports you, and understands you. Most importantly, it stands beside you.
Your family loves you unconditionally. No matter the person you are, the actions you take, or the choices you make, your family always wishes the best for you. We love our family the most. Our family fuels our ambition. It sticks together through anything and everything.
What is the need of communication?
Communication is not just the exchange of words between two people. It is also an exchange of emotions and feelings. You communicate so that you can be understood and so that you can understand. Communication is the solution to any problem. It is the basic key to anything and everything. Honest communication can lead you anywhere.
If you don’t score well. If you didn’t get your desired job. Or if you failed in something. If you cheated. Or if you hurt someone. No matter what you do, communication always helps you to solve the problem. It always helps you to improve the relationship you have with the other person.
Why should we communicate with family?
Any relationship stands on three principles-transparency, respect, and communication. So, whatever relationship it is, you need to be able to communicate. Communication not just strengthens the relationship but also helps you to make it stronger and better.
Often when you go through something you find yourself alone. You discover that you don’t have anyone and what can be more depressing than that. As a human being and as an emotional being, you need someone to stand with you always. You need someone whom you can run to after anything. You need someone who sees beyond your flaws and accepts you for what you are. Moreover, you wish for someone who understands you and loves you irrespective of everything. Your family is that someone you need.
Now when you combine the two-family and communication, it becomes one of the most important and key fundamentals of your life. No matter whatever the problem is or however your family reacts to it, it will always be your strongest support. You can trust them that they will never abandon you or betray you. Instead, they will always prove to be your best help.
As we grow, we assume that we are capable of solving our problems. We assume that we don’t need to discuss things with our family. We stop sharing our problems with our family members. But we don’t realize that in this process we are just weakening our bond with our family members.
There are many reasons why we are not able to talk to our family. It can be discomfort or fear or lack of understanding. Whatever the reason it is, not sharing our problems with them only creates more problems. When you stop communicating with them you create a barrier between you and your family. Therefore, it complexes the relationship dynamics.
When you fumble on the walkway of life, your family holds you and doesn’t let you fall. Somehow, if you fall, your family helps you stand again and walk again. Your family proves to be your best driving force. Since childhood, we are groomed to communicate everything with family. But it is very disappointing to notice that as we grow, we stop communicating with them. It has reasons but it is not ideal.
No matter how your family reacts to your problems they will always support you the most and love you the most through it. Moreover, they will help you find the best solution.